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Weeknote 14/2023

Collage of photos from holiday on Dunskey Estate

In early December 2020, after listening to a podcast which posed the question, “Who are you without the doing?” I decided to take the rest of the month off work. That blossomed into an experiment last year into taking my holiday in three discrete chunks. So in addition to April, I will again be taking three weeks off in August and December.

This was my first week off. As I’d left no real loose ends with my co-op work (we had a ‘handover’ meeting!) I felt relaxed almost immediately after turning off my computer on Friday. There were no sporting activities for the kids at the weekend, so we went for a decently-long walk in the Northumbrian countryside on Sunday and had an ice-cream at Spurreli’s in Amble.

On Monday we headed off on holiday to the Dunskey Estate near Portpatrick, Scotland. We spent four nights there (it’s pretty expensive) and it was wondrous. The best way to describe it, given that we didn’t really see anyone else, is like having a National Trust property to yourself. With all of the grounds — complete with walled garden, maze, lochs, beach, caves, waterfall, etc.

The one thing that I’m always a little disappointed about when we head over the border into Scotland is the food situation. My experience has been that, unless you’re in a city like Edinburgh or Glasgow, the options for eating out (and even for takeaways) are pretty poor. I’m not sure why that is, but it’s always very noticeable to us. That was the only downside, and meant that we ended up eating in every night. It was all good, though, as we got to play more Cards Against Humanity.


While we were away, I ran a 6k route down to Portpatrick and along the cliffs a couple of times, past a house that featured on the TV series Grand Designs in 2019. Talking of running, Rob Parker, who I know through setting up exercise.cafe last year, came to Morpeth earlier today so that we could run a 10k together. It was a great opportunity to find out more about each other, and we’re considering doing a walk and camp in the mountains together sometime.

I need to up the overall number of steps I do over the coming week, as I’ll be walking 20+ miles per day for six days when I do The Pennine Way. I’ve pushed back the start date for walking the first half of it to Sunday 16th April so that I can be around during the kids’ second Easter holiday week. Our son needs some encouragement to do some more GCSE revision 😉


The new Morpeth leisure centre opened while we were away, so after driving 3.5 hours home, we unpacked the car and headed straight there before it closed early for Good Friday. Although the gym is much bigger, it’s a bit disappointing that you can’t use the cardio machines at all without unlocking them with an app which tracks you. Also, although there are more machines altogether, there are a couple that were in the old gym that aren’t in the new. I shouldn’t complain, though, as I now get to add into my routine jumping onto stacked boxes and traversing the monkey bars!

I’ve got a list of jobs to do this coming week including staining the decking, re-sealing the shower, and planting seeds. All manual stuff which takes me away from screens, which is good. I’ll also be double-checking I’ve got all of the kit I need for my expedition. My new merino wool underwear arrived this morning, and I’ve got some other odds and ends arriving over the coming days. To be honest, though, I got pretty much everything I need for last year’s Hadrian’s Wall walk.

Weeknote 43/2022

Autumn leaves

It’s fair to say that I’m not a fan of this time of year. Yes lovely autumn colours and let’s get the snuggly jumpers out, but given it was was only a few weeks ago I was rocking shorts, sunglasses, and a t-shirt, I’m still in a state of shock. Where did the light go?

After working on Monday, I spent most of this week fighting off a cold in rainy Scotland at a pretty average Airbnb near Dundee. Our first choice one in Dumfries & Galloway wasn’t available, which makes me sad because I think we’d have had a better time.

It wasn’t terrible, but I didn’t sleep very well, there wasn’t loads to do that didn’t involve driving somewhere, and food prices in rural Scotland are insane. Still, we managed to entertain the kids at Glamis Castle (the setting for Macbeth), the V&A Dundee, and by visiting St Andrews. The latter was interesting despite, rather than because of, its connection to golf and royalty.

We returned on Friday night to watch my son play an exhibition match at the Newcastle Eagles arena before the pros played against Plymouth. Good stuff.

Next week, I’ll mostly be counting down the clock until Christmas working on various client projects and making remarks about how the nights are drawing in. No, I won’t be celebrating Halloween.

Are you sure we’re not supposed to hibernate until the springtime?


Photo of autumnal leaves taken near our Airbnb. If I’d taken it two seconds earlier I’d have captured lots of geese flying past overhead…

Weeknote 33/2022

Field full of sunflowers

We’re in Reims, France. It’s been a great week. Today is a milestone birthday for my sister, so happy birthday, Christa!

Tomorrow, we head home through the Eurotunnel. Hopefully it won’t break down this time! So far this week, we’ve been swimming, running, kayaking, and visiting various places — including an underground ‘troglodyte’ farm in the Loire valley.

On Thursday, I went out for a 10km run that turned into an accidental half-marathon. I didn’t bother taking my phone, as I was running a circular route and was measuring the distance on my watch. The trouble, however, was that I took the wrong road out of the nearest town to our Airbnb and ended up going in completely the wrong direction.

I compounded the error by thinking I was north when I was a really south, and so began a series of interactions to try and course-correct back to where Team Belshaw were staying. I had a conversation in broken French with an old woman who I made jump out of her skin when I said ‘Bonjour!’ She and I pored over an old map, and I set off in the correct direction.

I then flagged down a white van and again asked for directions in French. After the guy in the passenger seat gave me very involved directions in French, the younger man in the driver’s seat leaned over and said (in perfect English) “not from round here, then?” 🙄

Eventually, when I was not far from ‘home’ and absolutely knackered after running 21km, I came across a property with two cars outside that had UK numberplates. I knocked on the door, explained the situation, and was given a bottle of water and a lift back to meet up with my family. They were very happy to see me and expressed joy at my return really annoyed that I hadn’t taken my phone.

That afternoon, we went kayaking along the Loire. The river was really low and has been buoyed to ensure that paddles don’t hit the bottom and you don’t get beached! Much to Hannah’s bemusement, the three of us (kids in one kayak, she and I in another) not only were racing, but playing a form of pirates. I’ve hurt my arm, trapping it between my son’s paddle blade and our kayak. No pull-ups for me for a while!

The rest of the time we’ve been playing badminton, table tennis, swimming in the pool, and lounging around reading. Oh, and we all went for a cycle ride on Wednesday where we got caught in a thunderstorm and got absolutely drenched! Fun, though.

I finished How To Do Nothing by Jenny Odell which I’d highly recommend for anyone looking to resist the attention economy. I also read Because Internet by Gretchen McCulloch which makes me want to revisit a book I wrote eight years ago entitled The Essential Elements of Digital Literacies.

Next week, I’m not returning to work until Thursday. Hannah’s back in Monday, and the kids are at athletics camp for three days, so maybe I’ll be able to get started with a new project (or more likely, so DIY/painting!)


Photo of field of sunflowers taken during cycle ride on Wednesday. They grow them everywhere in Anjou, apparently for animal feed.

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